The World Is Not A Wish-Granting Factory

“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us and eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen in eternal.”

Day 28 - Something that you miss.

this challenge is getting boring -______-

1. one & only. your girlfriend should be your one & only. make her feel special, k guys ? you’re lucky to have her even if she’s lucky to have you too. we know there are prettier out there but we like feeling as if we’re the only beautiful one in your eyes, & the only one you see.
2. “ladies first.” no. that rule doesn’t apply to communication. don’t wait for her call, text, im, why don’t you try talking to her first for a change ? it’s thoughtful & sweet if a guy can actually do that. 
3. surprise her. you don’t have to drive an hour to her house at 3 a.m. to set off her name in fireworks in front of her window, but the little things are big things. a simple, good morning text, is more powerful than you think.
4. what insecurities ? for the love of god, all girls have insecurities. please don’t point them out. for example, today i was looking at food & my boyfriend said “you eat a lot. you probably could beat me at a buffet.” what. that’s not what you say. also, let her be herself. if she’s having a bad hair day, don’t make fun of her if it’s hurtful. let her wear sweatpants & still feel pretty damn cute around you, even when she’s not looking her best. 
5. act the same around your friends. you’re not a real man if you completely blow off your girl in front of your homeboys. when you’re going to hang out with her & your friends you better not run off & leave her standing there to greet them like wudduppp guysss.. no, you better at least walk with her & introduce her to them if you haven’t already. if you walk with her hand in hand, she’ll love it. 
6. when she’s mad. dude, you better try & get her back. chase her, whatever it is, don’t let her walk away when she’s mad at you. it shows you don’t care enough to go after her. don’t let her go. 
7. maintain. if you did a bunch of cute things with her before, try & keep it up. you don’t have to go all out everyday for her, but don’t stop completely just because you got her already. 
8. honesty. if you lie to her, you’re going to have one hell of a time regaining that trust because she’ll start questioning everything you’ve said or done for her, no matter how small that lie was. fess up or get lost. 
9. trust. if your girl really doesn’t like one of your friends, trust, she has good reason to. girls’ intuition -shrug- so don’t go hanging with your homegirl all the time if you know your girlfriend doesn’t like that bitch. she usually won’t hate for no reason. respect her. 
10. love her. that’s all

i had it for the first time on friday AND IT WAS SO SO SO YUMMY(: 

Day 25 - Someone who fascinates you and why.

him <3 because we have been together for almost two years, and i am STILL learning new things about him. we never never never get bored of each other, which is amazing(: he just fascinates me because of who he is <3

i love him ♥

gelaella:

I’ve been so selfish of myself and have lost focus on Him. He’s the reason why I’m here, why I even have these chances to enjoy life. I guess I let the bad things get to me again, and was being a brat that when things didn’t go my way I ignored Him. And when good things happened I forgot to thank Him. I will not let this happen again. Gotta step back and appreciate. God is love ♥

Even if your hands are shaking

and your faith is broken

even as your eyes are closing

do it with a heart wide open

Day 24 - Your favorite movie and what it’s about.

hmm, i dont have just one favorite movie, so i’ll name some of my favorites.

the notebook <3

dear john.

my sister’s keeper.

300 days of summer (:

*sorry, i forgot to do this one yesterday.

Day 23 - Give pictures of 5 guys who you find attractive.

1. matthew.

2. matthew.

3. matthew.

4. matthew.

5. matthew.

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